Milffinder Review

Milffinder is self-explanatory: you visit the dating site and meet with single mothers who want to have quick, casual encounters. Sadly, it’s not quite a legitimate site since the website is bugged with fake profiles and bot messages. In this review, I’ll share with you my experience with Milffinder and why it is a scam.

Milffinder is an online dating site that houses "thousands" of hot mommies. If you are the kind of guy who finds it sexy knowing that a woman raises her kids and does her best to pay the bills on time for her family, then Milffinder claims to help you meet that kind of lady. 

Before I elaborate on the features, we should discuss the gold coins on the website. Milffinder has its own currency called gold coins which you can spend on girls you want to talk to. Gold coins can be earned for free in different ways. The first method is registering as a new user. By default, you earn 100 gold coins. The second method - which is what the site keeps promoting - is the Lucky Wheel. Here, you can earn coins that range from 5 to 250 coins. Your first spin is free, but you will need to spend 25 coins to spin one more time. Your free spin resets after 24 hours since your first one. 

As for features, It has all the essential parts that you would expect from a dating site: a gallery of registered female users, an inbox, a Visitors page to know who viewed you, a Likes tab to see which girls you liked and who liked you back, a Favorites page in case you bookmarked a profile, and a Lucky Wheel that lets you win coins.

I created an account and purchased the 1000-coin package because, according to the site, it is their best seller. I messaged over 30 women ranging from 28 to 52 to see if they would message back. From there, I've found numerous red flags that make a dating site feel like a scam.

It all sounds fun until you realize the website is more like a dating simulator than a genuine experience with real people. It has had its share of negative reviews because of bot messages and arguably high coin prices. The beautiful ladies that you see in the gallery may persuade you to talk to them, but most of them are just grabbed images from places like TikTok and Instagram.

Some parts of the website do not make sense, particularly with the option on the left side that lets you pick between a man or a woman. Isn't the website about finding moms? Why am I allowed to look for men too?

I also want to tell you how important it is that the site name changes from Milffinder to Milfme the moment you successfully register an account. It confused me whether I should call it Finder or Me at this point, but it already got my attention, knowing that the URL name changes when you log in:

Below, I've written down all this site's problems, especially regarding fake profiles and spam bots.

As with any scam website, Milffinder has the common case of thousands of fake profiles. I checked out over 20 different profile pictures and discovered that they were all grabbed from social media sites, including Instagram, TikTok, and Pinterest. The lovely ladies that you find on the site are models and influencers who may not have known that their pictures were stolen and used for exploitative websites like this one:

Above you can see one of the fake profiles I came across. This woman is a well-known Brazilian actress - Leticia Sabatella, living in Rio de Janeiro. According to Milffinder (or Milfme), she lives in Seattle, and her name is Lempie. Needless to say, other details such as age are not matching as well: she is 39 on Milffinder, while in real life, she is over 50.

The same fake profiles I looked at would “visit” me back as if the website was telling me that the profiles were interested in me. 

I also checked their Terms & Conditions if there were any explanations about fake profiles looming around the website but they haven’t clarified anything about that. There are no methods to know if the person you are speaking to is a real person because the website lacks a checkmark verification system.

Quite frankly, no normal woman would ever want to join a website only to be labeled and objectified as a “milf” by a website. So, based on my investigation, there are no real people behind the pictures here.  

Fake profiles and bot messages always go hand in hand. After leaving my account logged in for 48 hours, I received a bunch of texts from various women. Mostly, the problem comes with how they speak because I can tell they’re non-native English speakers.

The messages don’t stop filling my inbox as well because some DMs were as late as 3:30 am. It’s like they’re on horny patrol 24/7. 

I also knew they were fake women because of how immediate their messages were. In one case, I messaged this girl at 5:55 pm, and she immediately replied to my basic greeting. I asked a bunch of things, but she never directly answered them. Instead, she just said she wanted me to see her through her link where she was “live.” After I messaged her more about it, she never replied anymore. I did the same process at 1 am only to have met with the same experience as the previous girl.

Overall, they either don’t message or reply as bots. Disappointing but unsurprising.

Remember when I wrote previously in this review that the website name turned from Milffinder to Milfme? The same goes for the company name. Supposedly, the company that made the website is named TrafficPartner B.V., but upon checking the T&C, suddenly, the company’s name is xsmobile (small caps intended). So, who are the users going to trust when the brand name and company name change when they register? 

If a website has no real authority, then it’s the reason why users have been rating it negatively due to the spam bots and fake personalities they meet on the website.

I checked out if there were user reviews about MilfFinder. Many of them gave it one or two stars, while some would even rate it at four or five stars (which I assume are review bots, especially the non-English kinds).

From over three site reviews, here are some of the most recent criticisms I found.

Trustpilot

Paul: Haste makes waste. I joined Milffinder without doing a proper research. Well, it turned out to be a ghastly ripoff. You get plenty of robotic messages, all correspondence is done by bots and I guess some staff members.

Craig: This site does tell you meeting a "Woman" is not possible because profiles are not real people. I use this site only to pass time. I have no intentions of spending any money. I respond to the unbelievable messages by "earning" free credits simply logging in. This is the entertaining part for me. I laugh at the ridiculous messages received. Think about it. NO real Woman will ever write these messages. I write back with raunchy, over-the-top replies to which they respond quickly (as if they'll be on site all the time), and make no comments about anything I've said. Just open ended question and taunt's challenging me as a man. All to provoke reply and credit purchase, The Bot's & Non-English speakers have a funny way of putting things, always in an open ended question or statement that induces a reply. Obviously, this is the scam. They want your response, by buying credit.

SiteJabber

Klaus: Their only purpose is to get you to purchase coins to talk with them. But you will be the only one talking. So fake.

George: The site's purpose is to take you money by engaging in chats, where each chat is charged against the money you paid. The people behind the profile are only they to engage you in chats to charge the account. They will never meet you.

As you can see, they’re not happy with how things work in MilfFinder. If users say there’s not a single soul found on a website, you know that it’s a fake dating site - especially if it is not as popular as Tinder.

Milffinder is just a waste of time and money. While it was nice to see some small fun features at first, like the Lucky Wheel, it all soon turned stale when I found out the profiles were fake. How am I supposed to know if they’re real when there’s no proof that they are who they say they are?

Finding for a milf here? Don’t bother. You’ll just find plenty of phonies instead.